Just Sayin'

When you think about the people who have spoken into your lives the most or maybe given you a new perspective, was it because they lived a perfect life and always had the right thing to tell you? Or did you learn from their mistakes, maybe feel connected to them because they shared their thoughts and struggles?

I am surrounded by amazing people and have really appreciated how transparent so many of them are. I'm not saying they go out and do horrible things, I don't mean this drastically. I just mean the kind of people that really dig down deep and strive to be the person they were created to be, and in the process are humble enough to share (in the right situation). I always wanna be like that. The real Holly.

Facing your fears.

I'm pretty sure I've blogged about this before but the topic just doesn't seem to go away.

When I was younger I let my fears control me and keep me from doing things that I wanted to do... or that would help others. About 3 years ago I really came to the understanding that God didn't want me to be controlled by this fear and I started facing fears as they came to me. The biggest thing at the time was leading worship, singing in front of people, etc. I really did learn to trust God to use me and that has become something that I'm fairly comfortable with. Well, we all know what happens when we get comfortable...

Last night a friend asked me to speak on camera to promote something for the young adults ministry. Ahhhhhhh! Ok, I know. I sing in front of people... I'm on stage all the time.... but this to me is worse than singing in front of thousands (well, I imagine at least... I never have) I despise talking on camera. Despise! BUT... I did it, not because I wanted to but because I want to be a stronger better me who is not held back by my fears. It makes me a little sick to my stomach to watch but I'll share it with you :o)

www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=434810922122&ref=mf

Day 3

Today I'm thankful for:

1. my husbands taco's... I love tacos!

2. all of the amazing students at youth! I truly love those kids!

3. that Jesus chose the cross for me.

(( The other day Isaac said to one of our friends "Jesus died on the cross" and our friend said, "yeah, thats sad, huh" which is what most people would say. Isaac said "No, he died to take our sins away, that's happy." Obviously it's sad because of the sacrifice and how much we love him, but Isaac opened my eyes to taking joy in the cross because of the gift it was for me. ))

Day 2

3 Things I'm thankful for today:

1. laughter; it just makes everything funner (and it releases endorphins right?)

2. my kids (who make me laugh) and say things like "I'm gonna be a little pastor, and Allie you play the piano like Mom"(( Lord help me to be the example you want me to be))

3. my iphone... yeah I said it. I LOVE that thing!

The List.

It's funny to me how often a thought in my head has to be repeated in really obvious ways before I spring to action. I'm working on that... but meanwhile- Recently I have trying to think a way to focus on the good. I kept thinking maybe I should just journal some little thoughts that come into my head and things that make me smile. Not really that challenging but have I done it yet? Nope. Today, in the mail, I got a letter from the foundation that granted me an amazing scholarship that encouraged me to take two weeks and write down 3 things I'm grateful for (specifically) every night because thankful people are happy people and happy people are productive, so here goes:

Tonight I'm thankful for:

1. my God that knows how to love me perfectly. In all of my humanity, He is the balance of grace, justice, mercy, discipline, and love. I was truly lost until I found Him and He is faithful through it all.

2. my husband who makes me feel like the most amazing woman (even when I'm a jerk) and he made me an awesome lunch today for school. We are still growing up together and I love that we'll grow old together too. He makes me feel safe and is the most amazing dad. I couldn't be more proud of him.

3. the scholarship I mentioned earlier. I couldn't be going to school right now without it.

Through their eyes

My kids are 6 and 3 years old and are absolutely in awe of the whole Christmas season. Yes, they understand it's celebrating Christ's birthday (and Daddy's) but they also love the lights, the trees, the smells (yes Christmas has smells) and the overall excuse to let ordinary-every-day-life become a little magical and special. My son doesn't remember where he set his back pack 5 minutes ago but he can tell me a play by play of what happened the last two years during Christmas. So even though decorating and planning ahead aren't my strong suits I put up the tree and lights, sing Christmas songs in the car on repeat, bake green and red snicker-doodles, buy and eat candy canes (which in turn equals horribly sticky mess), sprinkle glitter on the walk to show where the elves walked (even though I'll be sweeping it up for the next 7 months), watch old Christmas cartoons, tediously wrap presents that will just be torn open, set out cookies and milk for Santa and some carrots for the reindeer, and take some time out to see Christmas through their eyes... Merry Christmas.

I still exist :o)

Here I am... "studying in the library"

I realized just how long it has been since I blogged when a friend mention one of my most recent blogs the other day... which was around Valentine's Day. So.. I thought I should update :o) 

I started school at the very end of March (probably the culprit for the lack of blogs) and have been loving it. I am doing my pre-reqs for the nursing program, which for this term involves Math, Writing, and Medical Terminology. (I'm also taking a gym class for fun... and to boost my GPA ;o) 

Allie is going to the daycare/preschool here at the college and she loves it (except the moment I drop her off) and Isaac is finishing up his kindergarden year. Chris is pretty much doubling his work load by helping out around the house and cooking dinners etc. He's amazing!

 So that's the gist, I feel really blessed and can't wait to be a nurse but for now I'm just enjoying the ride.